Hi fig, The Study Abroad Junior Year Route is a great idea which we have tried several times to discuss with D16, just to get the "you are just crushing my dreams" silliness. At this point, I like our friend's advice on this: When D16 says "I want to go to Cambridge", I step back and say "Make it happen!" I get the impression that this is NOT the desired response.
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!