It's almost as if I fought the change that happened. still don't like what's happened. be crazy if i did. however, i think i can see some light....and it starts with me.
You don't have to like it, but embracing it and appreciating it can be good. You have been given the opportunity to be a better person/husband/father and when everything works out right have a better R with your W than you might have ever had.
The sep can be a good thing, it can really help shine a light on the good there was (that is now missing from each of your lives) and the greater good that can become through the work you are doing.
I am in a lot of respects thankful for my sep, because without it we would just be flying on autopilot watching life pass us by
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning