I need to remind her of my boundary. I will see how things are going in about 2 to 3 weeks. If she is still seeing him, I will tell her that she can't wait until the end of summer to go.
H4H,
Something to consider:
If it takes 2-3 weeks to enforce, it's not much of a boundary.
When are you going to stop walking on eggshells around your wife? If you don't do it for YOU, then at least do it for HER -- her behavior is damned near killing her.