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Why can I not GET this concept?

It takes a while. You will get it. When you stop the R talks, you will see that YOU will feel better. R talks are draining. Hang in there.
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OK, so is seducing him out of the question?

Honestly, I think that depends on if you feel it is helping or not. I think there is a fine line. Does he still feel bad afterwards? I know you mentioned that a few times. How do you feel afterwards? Better or worse?


Kris