I wasn't trying to start an argument here. Just stating what I felt I was seeing. I heard him say their marriage was rocky, and she was going out with divorced friends, dancing with guys, and he didn't like it. I have done SOOOOOO much reading about this, and the books/research shows that usually those ill feelings are founded in some way or another. He came to an infidelity/extramarital affairs/jealousy forum and asked a question. We gave him our answers based upon what we know and our experiences. Nobody is right here. I merely pointed out that one usually goes with the answer that they like the best. I knew from his post the first time that that is what he wanted to hear. Nothing wrong with that at all. Who knows who is "right". We don't know this man and woman. You supported him, and that may be exactly what he needed. I was just making an observation. Wasn't trying to start anything. Really.
