Yeah, at first I did want to reconcile and repair things. That is why I came here but he kept cheating and even being dishonest with his girlfriend. I think it is a sickness with him but that's no longer my problem really.
I am fine on my own because he traveled a lot and so I was used to being by myself. The rejection part hurt the most.
Be careful with your friendship and if you do want your H back then it is better to stay focused on yourself and your children.
Make those goals that are ME focused and also some that would make you appealing to your H more than the OW.
If you don't want him back then stick with the ME stuff and keep working on being that better and stronger person. Know, that you will be okay and give yourself time.
