You're right. I need to do more non R stuff. So so hard for me. Why can I not GET this concept? OK, so is seducing him out of the question? We are still ML at times, and I know it would pretty much a given (he's turned me down a couple times ,but not often). I still look for that closeness in anyway. Bad idea, or go with the flow?

Chris

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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!