I'm an almost WAW. You can read my threads. There's a lot of info in them. Lots of thoughts that the other WAW relate to.
In a short answer, right now you do whatever she asks & whatever will make her life easier, less stressful, & show her thru actions that you care & are willing to change.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
