Chris, I do know how you feel. But, you haven't given him time. You are still trying to convince him to see things your way.
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Perhaps I have made the mistake of making you feel that I NEED you, and need you only. Am I scared to be on my own, scared of trying to build a career at this point with the pressure of trying to keep this house? Am I scared of never having love again? Am I scared of you moving on? Am I scared for the girls and their adjustmen? The answer is YES to all of these things. But do I realize they are all possible, and that I'm a strong capable person, yes.
He knows you feel all this, just let him think about it. SHOW him you are a stong capable person. He will start to believe it when you show him consistently for a while.
You already tried the letter once....remember?? Just try no R talk. Start with a day, then try a week. He needs to feel comfortable around you and if he is worried of a R talk or a letter everytime he sees you.....he may start avoiding you.
Like I said, there may be a time for the letter....I just don't think it is now. He hasn't had enough time.
