Maybe I should not have discouraged you from posting. There are many of us who would welcome an attempt to understand the thinking behind the WAS. The individual who was agressive toward Favoriteweirdo (guess where he go that name?)doesn't seem to post much anymore. Perhaps he wouldn't find your thread. And if he did you could block his posts so that you didn't see them. This board is kind of addictive, isn't it?
We all would be interested in hearing what happened to change you twice-- once into believing that life would be better without our dear, sweet, beautiful Sally, and again into believing that life is better with dsb Sally.