Thinking. I have to wait out the next couple of months. It will lead where it leads. I have to still take care of her for now. Be the best that I can be. Take care of myself and my kids and her.
I can't let my emotions control my actions. She doesn't contact him while at home. He does not contact her while she is home. No contact on the weekends, unless she is alone. There might be a small chance that the contact they are having is her trying to tell him what she knows she has to do concerning them.
She has said that he is persistant, like me. Hopefully, he can man up and do the right thing.
If she still decides to leave, then so be it. I was prepared for it already.
I know the contact is going on about a year now. I figure the EA began about last July or August.
What the F is two more months?
People keep telling me that they see hope for us. Like I do.
Thoughts?
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
