You can't avoid her forever. Better that you're prepared for it than for her to just unexpectately show up on your doorstep. Do some yoga, take some Xanax and go over there.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."