See, that's what I get for not reading through the whole history! LOL I'm glad you all know exactly what he needs to hear though that is huge! Don't be what you aren't or it will be fake and temporary (I remember that in one of Michele's books about change)... but maybe there are some things you wouldn't necessarily mind turning over control of. Things that you could ask for help on, that wouldn't leave you feeling poorly about yourself.

Sounds like you are already doing that right now with asking help with the edging etc.....

Chris

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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!