Cat that's exactly how I see it. If I'm not cooperative then first I can expect the same treatment back, second the girls are the ones that will suffer the most and third it just reinforces negative feelings. None of us can have our wounds healed if we allow negativity to continue.
Hey and if it does go on to help her see how great a man I am, that I'm "the man", that I have changed and our marriage is worth working on with all her might then that's the super bonus prize for all of us.
Now to get other people to really see and understand this logic. It seems so simple to me but I guess for some it isn't so cut and dry.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
