Cat when my children we tiny I once met a woman with a baby the same age at a toddler group. I watched her put her baby in it's carry baby seat onto the front seat of the car. She didn't fasten a seat belt around it but just got into the drivers side. Thinking she had just forgotten to put the seat belt around the chair I pointed it out to her. She said she never bothered with the seat belt to secure the chair in place.

Irresponsible? Yes. Misinformed? No. This woman was a nurse in the emergency dept and her husband was a consultant also in the ER! They must see the consequences of this type of behaviour all day every day and yet................. Like your H I'm sure they thought 'it will never happen to me' I never saw this woman again and I hope and pray that her child never did end up in the ER as a result of her negligence but I'm sure it was there but for the grace of God.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15