Just one thought~Do you have a cell? Then why not get rid of the house phone? H and I have no landline as it seems a little redundant. That way if he wants to get the phone reconnected, it has to be in his name.
He is acting out like a child. Of course he's poking at you--you have set boundaries, and he is a spoiled baby who wants what he wants.
I wouldn't get sucked into the drama. If he tells you you're evil, it's, "I'm sorry you see it that way," and go to another room. If he says, "I don't have to sign the agreement," then you reply, "Yep, you absolutely don't have to. It's your choice." And again, walking out of the room as if you have not a care in the world.
He knows he's wrong, so he's got to try to prove his rightness. You aren't defacing his character, you are responding truthfully to questions about your situation.
Don't argue with him. He is embarrassed and ashamed, and he's dug himself a giant hole he doesn't know how to get out of. Best to treat him like a piece of lint.
Hang in there, and ENJOY Disney!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
