Dom's right on this one. Last weekend while we were shopping, I asked him to stop by the party store so I can get supplies for s2's party. He at first just pulled the car up and was going to let me out. I asked him if he'd come inside and help me pick things out. He replied, "you never wanted my input as far as parenting our kids, and now all of a sudden you need help picking out Elmo plates?"
My motto has always been "I can do it myself. I don't need you or anyone else." He complained about my independance before we were even married.
So, for the lawn, even though I've done a pretty good job, he's quick to point out the weeds, the unedged edges, and anything else he notices to remind me of what he would have done.
In all reality, I DON'T need him. But, it wouldn't be good for him to know that.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
