For the Guy with kids and a WW5

[hopeful4her]

Not a whole lot in the H4H household.

Picked up roomie from work, ON TIME. Talked a little. I try to initiate the conversation as usual. Quick stop to pick up some cream for D6. She seems to be in a funky mood. She is tired and at home, ends up falling asleep after dinner and a phone call to her little sister. She still doesn't have her other phone in her purse, I find. I get kiddo's to bed and lay on bed with roomie and fall asleep myself while watching tv.

This morning, I am up first and walk around the house. Nephew gets up to tell me he tried calling roomie last night. He needed a ride. I go check her phone. Ringer is still off from work. She missed a ton of calls last night. MIL, both of her sisters, her aunt in Laredo. I check her texts.

Lunch with OM yesterday verified. Unless she erases them, no texts to him. Only his to her. I would think she would erase his, too, if she was trying to hide them.

Three of them.

First one early:
What time is ur lunch

Second around lunch time:
Im out side

Last one around 3pm:
Im heading to work, my luv
I love you and always will

PUUKKKKEEEE!!

I wake her up and we are getting ready. I ask if she wants some lunch or does she have lunch covered. "I have lunch covered."

There goes my mood, again. So I'm quiet, again. Not sad, but a bit angry. Some of that anger is towards myself.

While getting ready, I tell her what nephew said. I tell her that she sure had a LOT of activity on her phone yesterday and I tell her she still had her ringer off. She had fallen asleep with her phone in her hand and it had fallen on the floor. She laughed at herself for leaving the ringer off. She is trying to involve me with her being a dork for forgetting. I don't really bite. She knows that I must have looked at her phone.

She didn't catch what I meant and was really trying to tell her.

We leave and I'm still quiet. She calls her aunt and they talk a bit. Family BS. She is trying to joke with me a little. She gives me a little of thier conversation. I don't say much. She says, "Your quiet."

I tell respond a little. I tell her that her aunt shouldn't be involving her so much in the family BS so much. "You have enough crap to deal with in your life", I tell her.

She got quiet after that.

Taking her to work, I am being as upbeat as possible. We are early and I ask if she wants some coffee or if she is hungry. She says yes. We forgot to make coffee at home. I stop at Krispy Kreme. She picks out some donuts and I decline.

But I did take the free sample

She offers to pay. We make our coffees and go. At her work, she hesitates and then says, "Well, you have a good day." She looks directly into my eyes. Guilty look. I look directly back at her and tell her to do the same.

I think I had my puppy dog eyes. Maybe her guilt will overcome her thinking.

I think in her mind, she is still able to have lunch with the guy. Like, there's nothing wrong with that. It's just lunch. Are others that dumb?

I need to remind her of my boundary. I will see how things are going in about 2 to 3 weeks. If she is still seeing him, I will tell her that she can't wait until the end of summer to go.