I'll jump in then. My h has been a cop for 5yrs. I noticed the changes after probably 1 yr. Of course, I think he was jaded before from being a paramedic for 7yrs.
He thinks the worst about everybody. Everyone is bad unless proven otherwise. We are not to open the door to ANYONE. Not a salesman, Jehovah Witness, NO ONE. He hates crowds. Carries his gun EVERYWHERE including church, family's houses, and the grocery store.
Everyone is a suspect, including me unfortunately.


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."