Ok mishka, I'll let you know when I get more details. Sounds like fun.
Yep, I think if I talked to H right now I would just spiral. Nervous about the lawyer thing today, but I will get through it.
Haven't decided what I want to do about the car yet. It may be easier for ME to go ahead and refinance like I was going to (even though it would help him too). His payment will be much lower, therefore easier for him to pay. I would rather cut all ties, but I don't want that car and I worry about selling it for what we owe on it with it being an SUV and gas prices like they are.