Hope4us struggle, part 6

[Hope4us]

Not on your life...and here's why.

Back after I found out about the affair, we pretty much kept our morning routine which was her showering and then me. We would cross paths in the bathroom and when I got out I'd stand at the vanity and comb my hair before putting on undies. After her first weekend trip to see OM she started leaving the vanity area when I got out of the shower (shower/commode is separate room from vanity) to go to the other bath upstairs to get ready until I was out of the vanity area. Then she'd return there. After I started getting up before her she would wait until I came downstairs before going up to get ready.

So I see this as a big step forward that she's getting comfortable enough around me that she comes into the bedroom/bathroom while I'm getting ready, even without clothes. So, no....she can come in all she wants. I think it's just that she's making the transition back to "us" and that's a GOOD thing.