One more thing (I should get these all in one post). WW asked if I wanted to be in a R with someone who didn't love me? Is this typical script as well?
Yep.
My wife actually said I made her "physically sick to her stomach" at one point.
SCRIPT.
A good answer would be "I took my vows seriously" or "I understand that's how you feel RIGHT NOW, but I still don't want a divorce".