Absolutely Kris. And that is ONE thing in this that I am so very thankful for. I will always be so greatful that he is their Daddy. He is a very great and devoted one. HE is killing himself to see them, and it does mean the world to them and me.

I just wish the other part of that picture was if he'd work as hard to keep their family and parents together. HE keeps telling me things like.. "we will always be a family. IT'll just look different". I personally don't see that. I see that we will always be their parents. My family will be me and the girls, his family will be him and the girls, but I don't see all 4 of us as a family after a divorce.

Just a difference in the view of family between us I guess.

Chris

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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!