tell your daughter to enroll in a localish college and check their study abroad programs
that way you pay your university fee instead of Cambridge's (make sure they have a program there...most do)
that way, she will have to do some of her generals since most colleges don't offer study abroad until junior year...
gives her time to mature and something to plan for
(my college did an exchangfe with cambridge and also with tons of other ones...sheck out their study abroad program...they will be more than willing to talk about it)
