Yeah, I'm trying the casual thing too. H is getting ready to take the Sergeants exam again. I helped him prep alot last time and he got 2nd, unfortunately there was only 1 slot. They are getting ready to test again, and he told me about it last night. I told him if he wanted help again, I'd be happy to help him in his prep again, and that I knew he'd do well. HE just said "ok, thanks". I'm sure he won't take me up on it, but I'm trying to do the "casual" thing too.
How long has H been a cop? Mine has been 9 years ,and I saw a pretty decent change in him in the last 2 since he became a detective. Just curious to exchange spouse stories with the job.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!