Some of us learn good things and some of us learn bad things.
2x4: Both you and BBJ have taught your husbands that you have the patience of a saint. That they can continue to take advantage of you and there aren't consequences. Both of you have set rules (e.g., no cheating, move out, etc) but haven't shown them a consequence when they break or violate a rule.
Men are like dogs, sometimes it takes a shock collar to break a bad habit.
OUCH! I bruise easily, but you are right Woog.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008