Sorry to hear of that Braveheart. That’s tough man.
As for me, there has been little change in my sitch. The D will be final at 9:00 AM on July 7th. The stbx has started contacting me again. She is showing up at places she knows I will be and being pleasant and actually fun to be around. I know that she is just doing this to lessen her guilt. She is telling me how she loves me dearly and will always keep me in her heart and on like that. She talks about doing particular activities, listening to certain kinds of music, watching less TV, and other various things that I was always trying to get her to do when we were together. WTF! This would be so much easier if she would just be a b*tch, or mean, or whatever. Instead she is being an even better version of the self that I am already heart broken for. I am nothing more than her toy.
Incidentally, I am moving to Panama. We live in a relatively small town and I quite simply can not hang around and watch her move on without me. I am just going to drop off the grid for awhile and re-group. Simply put, I can do anything I want now… so I am.
Me: 35 WAW: 28 Bomb: 1/13/08 S: 1/14/08 D filed: 2/24/08 D final on 7/07/08
Do your damndest in an ostentatious manner all the time. -George S. Patton
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