Well it's been three days now. This no contact thing is going to drive me insane. Over in the other section I have been told to 180 and to go dark once I moved out so that is what I am doing. I need to stop pursuing him so that he can pursue me, that kind of thing. I wish I could just pick up the phone and call or text but I don't think it would help my case.
I know we will have to talk soon because we are still waiting for our kicker check and when he gets it in the mail he is supposed to call me and let me know. So by the end of the month we will have to have at least one conversation, maybe a meeting in person. Who knows.
I just wish I knew what he was up to! Ahh!
Hi Daisy,
Hang in there! DON'T CONTACT HIM! Even if you think of a reason that you "really need to let him know this/ask him this" JUST DON'T!
A great thing to do now is to get involved with a brand new interest or hobby and meet new people, or return to an interest or hobby you used to do a long time ago and now make the time for.
There is a free organization called meetup.com all over the country where you can meetup weekly with an interest group of your choice.
You can try one or more and then return to the one(s) that you are really into.
