The OM just keeps looking better and better. You're right "What a catch".
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She asked me last night if I would mow the grass at her new place, help her out money wise if she got behind and take the kids more than the custody arrangement (50/50) if needed when the D is over. She said that she is afraid of losing me and that she needs to know that I will "take care of her" post D.
The nerve!!! Other than taking the kids more often if that is what YOU want, there is nothing wrong with setting her straight on the other issues and telling her in a very calm manner that you will NOT be doing those things for her. Setting boundaries for yourself IS part of DBing.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz