So as for tomorrow, am i ok to dance with anyone there if W is around or is that forbidden? I love W, but i want to have fun, and i am not dancing with the men LOL
Gosh hard one. I don't know. I'd worry that it would look too "obvious" that you were trying to get her attention, and backfire, even if that is not what you'd be intending. I don't know. Are there "safe" people to dance with that would be there that wouldn't necessarily make her jealous (people she wouldn't be threatened by) but still give you the opportunity to dance, have fun, and for her to see you having fun and getting out there?
I don't think I'd necessarily be asking the hot girl in the room to dance in front of your wife. LOL
Chris
you think asking the hot girl to dance would backfire on me?
Her cousin is non threatening to her.. i don't know why i am even worrying about it, i don't even know if W will show up...and if she doesn't i still can't ask hot girl to dance because it will get back to her via her cousin... sheesh... not like i am trying to pick up hot girl.. i am just dancing and having fun.
maybe i'll just play wingman to my single buddy (who W's cousin is in love with)..
No over-analyzing every step, i promised myself and Jeff ..
Just be, enjoy the present..
right now i just look forward to be being beat on by my personal trainer.. and now that i've lost all this weight, toning up..
Remember i have always been scared to dance, worried about what others think... i used to have to get loaded before i'd go dance, i imagine i looked real dumb..