I get the same anger and evil spew from my STXW. She blamed me for all of her pain, frustration, anxiety , anger, etc in the D process even though she was getting what she wanted.
It makes sense if you consider that the WAW blames you for every problem in there lives for the whole time that you were married (Mine has actually taken it back to before we met).
yes mine dates it back to the day we stepped off the airpalne after our honeymoon. it's funny though, I have cards and poems and notes that date back to just before Sept. 07 that say I'm the greatest man "ever".
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I came to the conclusion that she was mad that I was still breathing.
Yes me too, I'm taking her space and sucking all the Oxygen out of the room.