New thread, new phase?

[JWS]

i have not read mars and venus, but in 5 languages of love he gives very good examples, i was just tihink back to the past and what she has been most responsive to. she seemed to get the most upset if i said i would do something then not due it becuase to her this made her feel unloved. now i can see when i do things she appreciates them. I know that it is going to take a lot of time to get to a point where i can really use the advice in that book but it seems pretty good.