Thank you all for looking in on me Puppy, karen, wdid, kat, lwb, h4h and everyone else, Sara, Cat, Germ, CBK,
Karen, I don't when the incident happened, When I left for softball W was in shorts, when I got home she was is in a dress. The incident where she left the kids at the park could have been anytime during the day.
FYI dress W was wearing when she left last night was the dress she had on when she came over this morning to watch the kids.
I told W not to ever leave the kids by themselves again, if she needs to, she should drop them off at my moms. She said she left D9 in charge before at our house for a short time. I said, look at our house she has a phone; she could go next door to the neighbor (crazy old lady), etc. At the park D9 would have to rely on strangers if anything happened.
W called me this morning about something, I could hear the kids fighting in the background, and our discussion turned to D9 who is mean to her younger siblings, I told W that D9 was unhappy, that's all I said 3 words "D9 is unhappy" and W blew up, said she didn't appreciate me blaming her for D9 (what did I say ?) went right into the speech about how she is with the kids for 12 hours a day and does everything for the kids, (remember this, it keeps coming back). I let her vent and got off the phone with her.
2 minutes later W calls me back and is calmer, I told W D9 lost her Nintendo that D9 has been more noticeably unhappy for a week now, ever since she came back from staying the night at her friends house. W said its D9 hormones starting to kick in. I personally don't know, I will probably bring in someone to help with that talk, I already talked to D9 about hygiene, we discussed her need for some more bras, W picked them up for her. D9 and W don't get along, if anything needs to be said to D9 it's my job no matter what it is or will be.
Just have to get through this summer and life should start settling down. FYI, met a girl named Stephanie. very nice, met her last week, saw her in the cafeteria at work and also met her last night at softball, very nice, red head, kind of quiet (opposite of W), don't worry, I'm still wearing my ring, It will take some time to get my life straight, before anything else.,
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
