JAK - I can sure relate to that 'tired' feeling. You absolutely deserve to be first, not second to a fantasy. Wanted to mention though.. especially if she's not even interested in him anymore... he's REALLY obsessing over a fantasy, moreso than most WAS even. Usually the OW is up on a pedastal as it is. Now he's not even in an R with her, so he's free to build her up to the "perfect" person in his mind. He doesn't even have to deal with the real person anymore! Make sense?

I hope at some point (preferably soon!) he realizes this.

(((jak)))

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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