It could be she needed the break as well from you and the memories to be sad. Although she may not show it....this is likely not easy for her as well.
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I wish I could stay constant on one emotion. The otherday I was a peace. But I keep bouncing back and forth from anger to hurt to scared and everything in between not to mention lust. All of witch seem overwhelming right now.
This is very normal. In the early days leading up to my sep, I went from very intense anger for her saying she didn't want to work it out despite the kids, to intense (I mean very intense) sadness and guilt for the things I have done wrong and the apparent loss of a friend, to empowerment (after reading DB).
As far as where to stay play it by ear, allow her to set this boundary and respect it. It could very well be that her mouth says one thing (stay at your place) but she might be showing sadness which says another. I would respect what she says under this circumstance, anything else would just make her defensive
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
