I'm laughing at myself now as I didn't realise I was brewing that :-)
Yes, I have always been really supportive where work is concerned and have always been really proud of him. He worked up to his position now from nothing and is earning a good wage. He spent a good few years supporting me in my quest for the 'perfect' job. Ironically as soon as I got my perfect job he b*ggered off!
Last summer though I wasn't so supportive as I started to resent all the time he was spending with the people from work. He was out with them every night and I didn't realise that the more I nagged him to spend time with me the more I drove him away. I think one of the important things I need to somehow show him (through text message??!) is that I understand his need to socialise with work and that can we somehow find a compromise? My primary love language is to spend time with my s, and that was never challenged until last summer.
