Nik - not sure if your H is like mine in this respect, but any suggestions were always taken as pressure. So, I would say stick to the "I support you whatever you decide" type stuff and play up his talents with a lot of WOA?
(((Nik))) I am so glad they seem to want him over there!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2