Wow, that has been brewing inside me for a long time! It was good to get it out!! Ooh, I seem to have hidden anger and resentment where this is concerened.
Go ahead and vent girl....that is why we are here.....
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I kind of figure maybe this need for recognition, as that is why he is now not satisfied with his job now as he is not being praised and acknowledged for his brilliance, is because he was helpless when he was ill and he is trying to overcompensate now
In the past have you supported him in his "brilliance" through admiration (like wow you do do a good job) or just kind of rolled your eyes (thinking are you really taht into yourself and your job)? Whether he is over compensating or a basic need that is pretty common for a lot of men is to feel admired for what they do at work and at home.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
