We have a D deal verbally. It is being written up for signatures. My W is in love with the OM. A real catch. I think that she was desperate four something to validate her and took the first thing that she could. BTW it appears that he also has an chronic STD. I am really glad that I listened to my Atty and stayed away from her during the S. She finally admitted the A and is in a big hurry for the D. She is worried that he may be breaking it off because of the time issue.
She asked me last night if I would mow the grass at her new place, help her out money wise if she got behind and take the kids more than the custody arrangement (50/50) if needed when the D is over. She said that she is afraid of losing me and that she needs to know that I will "take care of her" post D. The answers are no,no,no, you lost me and no. I did not say that last night. I just listened and nodded and acted really tired. She really thinks that I will be doing all of this after the D. The logic must get totally flushed when they Walk Away.
