Sorry but your H sounds a little clueless. I mean, most of us on here would be jumping up and down for a chance like you describe.
You shouldn't plan everything, especially if it's his suggestion. If you're picky about how things get handled, you should let go of some of that so he can plan in his own way. But he needs to step up a LITTLE!
Good for you! I think you're being more than fair. Go on the bike ride anyway with D if he falls through, even if it's hot and muggy and mosquitoey.
