He felt I was never there for him. I used to work away from home (8 days on 6 days off) and he said that even when I was home I was on the computer checking my work emails.
that's how he had the first affair, which was mostly EA and was PA one time.
The others were after we separated. He thought I was done, I probably gave that impression. In my mind however, I felt that he was emotionally manipulating and controlling and even emotionally abusive at times (not physically though). I was using the separation to try and get my head straight, work out what I wanted, did I really love him, could I get past the nastiness that had occurred. In the meantime, I think that he felt that he couldn't be alone and filled up the void with other women and hid it from me. He told me half truths about these relationships, that they weren't physical etc. Sheesh, it sounds awful when I type it.
** Purple
As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe
