Hi Sandi, Thank you so much for the information. This exactly what I am looking for on this site. I will reread the DR book today. I will do the 180 the correct way now. Thank you for your prespective on my w actions. You make it very clear.
Today in our Aniversary. I will not contact her. I will see her later to pick up my daughter, but I will leave it at that, and make sure I end the conversation and leave very quickly. Next week I am going on vacation with my daughter for the week. I will make sure her phone calls to check on our daughter are just that, and I will end the call first.
You are right. I find my self trying the DB thing, but have not done a very good job. I need to be stronger.
Thanks you so much for your help........
Keep the faith!! One Goal! Thanks CZ me: 34 XW: 29 D: 5 T: 13 M:9 Dday: Sep 18, 08 joint legal and physical custody of child XW recently told me, she d me, cause she tought I would abandoned her!