Hi Sandi,
Thank you so much for the information. This exactly what I am looking for on this site. I will reread the DR book today.
I will do the 180 the correct way now. Thank you for your prespective on my w actions. You make it very clear.

Today in our Aniversary. I will not contact her. I will see her later to pick up my daughter, but I will leave it at that, and make sure I end the conversation and leave very quickly. Next week I am going on vacation with my daughter for the week. I will make sure her phone calls to check on our daughter are just that, and I will end the call first.

You are right. I find my self trying the DB thing, but have not done a very good job. I need to be stronger.

Thanks you so much for your help........


Keep the faith!!
One Goal!
Thanks
CZ
me: 34
XW: 29
D: 5
T: 13
M:9
Dday: Sep 18, 08
joint legal and physical custody of child
XW recently told me, she d me, cause she tought I would abandoned her!