Sex and Separation....... Discuss!

[The Wifey]

Last night I had my last melt down. I did the pleading with him to just come home because we can't work on us while he is away. He said he needs to work on him before he can work on us (but he still loves me, we'll always have a connection, why can't I just understand.)

I realize I need to do the DB route. I reached a point of acceptance and have decided my self respect has taken enough of a beating. I'm going dark and working on me.

I gave it a lot of thought last night. I will still be here for him to turn to, if HE initiates. I want that connection even still. But the rest of my time is going to be spent GAL.

I decided that I am going to go camping. I am going to borrow my son's tent, grab the dog and just go. Not sure where I'm going to go just yet, but the best way I can see to start this is to just DO IT!