It can't be any worse than learning a jiu-jitsu form. You begin with each move individually, and then learn to meld them into a fluid dance.
Forms? Blasphemy!
Yeah, sorry....bad analogy on my part. Our boys do Taekwondo, so we know forms all too well.
Still, ejaculatory control training is not as complicated as I seem to have it sound. The number of months involved is not a matter of complexity, it's a matter of retraining your body out of an undesirable conditioned reflex, which takes time.
It is worth the effort, however. Quite worth it.
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007