I know that it is so frustrating, but in my experience going dark has been so much better than chasing which is what your h will view your actions as. Vent here as much as you need. SG said to me that is can take a man 6-8 weeks to start missing you. I know that it seems like a long time but unfortunately it is rare that these things are solved quickly. I have to remind myself of that constantly as I am an impetuous person. It is a really difficult thing to do but in the long run it will be beneficial to you.
It might help to try and view this as a regrouping time. You are taking the time to work on you so that when you do finally meet up you will be stronger.
