Well, the big discussion happened tonight. WW convinced she wants D. Asked if I would go to a C to help us work out the details as adults. I said no, my position hasn't changed (see above). Had to say this a few times.

Well we ended up talking for 90 minutes. I validated her feelings, had to express mine on a few things (like how I could not D with kids as I feared it would really impact them). Of course near the end she was taking my justifications for my feelings and turning them into me attacking her and making her feel guilty.

Anyway, she said she doesn't want to work on R. I said I hear you, sorry you feel that way. I, however, cannot agree without turning over every stone to try and make this work. Again, I do not want D. She then said but you will have to accept it to which I said we will each do what we have to.

She got angry with me not agreeing to work with C. I said why, just cause I do not agree and have the balls to stand up for what I believe? Made her more angry.

Anyway that is where we left it. Not sure what will come tomorrow.

LIS

M45
WW 43
D17/S14/D11

ILYB Jan 08
PA Conf Feb 08
OMW / OM contacted
S Jan / 09

No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.