Selfish is the name of my H's game now. Crazy as he's done a complete 180 during our marriage. Before this I would have said he was selfless and giving. Guess he doesn't know how to serve others and himself, finding that perfect balance. Here's hoping to one day that happening, though I know it's too late for us. But, of course, I don't want that to happen TOO soon. Honestly, I wouldn't mind him feeling some pain first, a little taste of his own medicine. Bad, yes. True, yes again.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
