"I don't see the tension at the house that W is expressing to L. "
Spouse talked about the tension in the gathering for the graduation and how it sent conflicting signals. The kids didn't have a problem, I didn't once I got over my upset that my family was splintered.
The tension comes from her.. from how she perceives the situation, how you both need space. Each action has blame and righteousness attached to it on her part.
Is there right and wrong? No clue. It took a lot to get to this place.
Here's to having time alone with your darlings.. When was the last time you took candids of your kids?
