Hey C2 I totally understand what you are saying, totally ( gawwd I sound like a valley girl uh? lol)
There are some aspects of their R I dont understand, her H D use to be an alcholic, I dont understand all that she tells me of how when he got sober 10 yrs ago, he started to withdraw more into himself. To me that didnt make sense. She tries to explain it, but dont get it.
Also, their oldest S, hes 36, he has been diagonsed as bi polar,so he lives there, works a few hours very few at a burger place- dosnt speak to anyone but C really. C H dosnt speak to him, C says he is dissapointed his son is " like that" It must be very hard for C, she knows basically he will be relying on them for the rest of his life His meds help a bit but not much, he really dosnt seem to function very well out there in the world. Its sad for everyone.
We all went to lunch together a few weeks ago, we walk in the rest. and C and I hug and Bob hugs C and her H D sat there, no hi , nothing. I said HELLLOOOO D then he says hi! At lunch he will laugh at our jokes and all but dosnt contribute to the convo.
C is talker so B thinks maybe he cant get a word in edgwise lol
All great thoughts guys thanks! I was hoping things were better , but apparently not. Dont like seeing friends hurt
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