Well,she has a set of cahones on her now doesnt she.

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She wants to write my son a letter and send it to him, says she loved him more as a step mom than I did as a dad.


This is a big invitation to fight. Ignore it, it is not realistic, merely antagonistic. She baited you, you took the bait. Blech.

Next time y'all get in one of these talks where the whole everything is gonna be peachy keen when we get D, I want you to say something to her.

"I understand why you would feel that way, I am sure that all will be the way it is supposed to be."

Nothing more, nothing less, simple and non emotional.

Ian

M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09